People are Like Plants

People are a lot like plants. The way they show up and express their needs often depends on their attachment style. This plays out not just in romantic relationships, but also in friendships and family dynamics.

Think about it: Are they high-maintenance, moderate-maintenance, or low-maintenance individuals? And when you build connections, what kinds of people do you tend to keep close? Are you someone who needs a bit more care and attention, yet finds yourself surrounded by easygoing, low-maintenance folks, or is it the other way around?

Recognizing the type of ‘plant’ you and the other person are is essential. It helps you communicate your needs clearly and choose relationships where those needs are more likely to be met. Additionally, this helps you keep realistic expectations, because you’ll see that how someone acts (or doesn’t act) usually has more to do with who they are and what they need than with anything you did or didn’t do.